We're not strangers to the weird and wacky as long as it's private and between consenting adults
When being discreet matters!
EVERYONE has sexual desires, and at times we just like to satisfy those needs with a human connection that doesn't involve the added effort of meeting someone in person.
FOR THAT we have the perfect answer. Sexting [i.e. sex text chat via your mobile phone] is performing the sending of sexually explicit messages and or images to one or more people.
THIS FORM of communication, by nature, comes with factors you need to be aware of such as consent and privacy.
HERE YOU CAN rest assured you'll be joining the UK's favourite chat site and largest private adult chat community.
WHEN it comes to dating or just meeting up, it always requires effort.
FOR BUSY PEOPLE or those who just don't have the time in their life for a committed relationship, our service offers a way to engage with like-minded people on a no strings attached understanding.
AFTER ALL your sex drive doesn't go away just because you're busy, right? What we offer is a way for you to take care of your sexual needs without putting yourself out.
AS WITH other personal private activities, sexting will allow you to let go of your inhibitions and feel more relaxed exploring your sexual desires knowing there's no commitment between you and your secret chat partners.
YOU CAN experiment with language and images that you wouldn't feel comfortable about sharing in person or with someone who actually knows you.
OUR secure platform offers a big element of safety that in-person meetings don't.
YOU WILL be able to interact with like-minded strangers near you or further afield without ever having to put yourself in dangerous or dodgy situations.
YOUR EXPERIENCE will always be what you want it to be, and should things not be going in precisely the direction you want, it's just a matter of moving on to another chat partner.
Our secure sex chat platform works on any system and any device 24/7/365.
WE BELIEVE that sexual stimulation and entertainment shouldn't be confined to a desktop computer so our sex chat service is completely mobile friendly.
WHEN YOU'RE LOOKING FOR
"FAST & GUARANTEED"
THIS IS IT.
SEX CHAT isn't one of the most talked about topics in real life (IRL), perhaps understandably, but it's happening with all sorts of people who are engaging daily in every imaginable scenario you can think of.
IT'S THE DIRTY SECRET
ADULTS WANT KEPT HIDDEN
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
CONTRARY to popular belief women are up for it too! Maybe society has made men less patient and more obvious about their intentions but women have the same desires as men.
DESPITE a mass of guys wanting to engage in raunchy texting, there are plenty of girls who are more than up for getting it on with men they don't know, and who don't know them.
FIRST OFF our service is based on providing you complete anonymity, or at least keeping you as anonymous as you want to be.
THE THING about anonymity, it makes people feel safer. Hiding behind a persona also gives you the freedom to explore sides of your personality that you would otherwise feel too self conscious about to explore.
FEELINGS of embarrassment you may feel in a real life situation will simply fade away with a level of honesty rarely seen outside that of anonymous chat sessions with a stranger.
IT'S OBVIOUS to say, but no one has ever contracted a STD from chatting with someone else.
THERE are no bodily fluids involve, yet the experience can be just as personal. And since interactions are with strangers, there's no fear and nothing to hold you back.
THE FREEDOM to try new things and reinvent yourself in a no commitment private one-on-one sex chat setting that is both safe and secure is an exciting prospect.
IF YOU are like most people you will have erotic thoughts and desires that you can rarely engage in with your spouse or partner (yes, those thoughts and desires!).
THE REALITY is that embarrassment, fear of being judged or out and out rejection keeps most people from talking about the things which most excite them.
YOU MAY not know this, but reliable research has shown that over 80% of adults who engage in sexting activities would like to have sex in real life with their sexting partner. .
ALL WE ASK and this is important, always play safe and take appropriate precautions when exchanging any personal information with someone you don't know.
ACTING OUT fantasy roleplay scenarios is a popular activity between sex chat buddies, how seriously it is taken depends on you and your secret sexting partner.
SOME PEOPLE are content with general agreement on a specific location and roles
like:
Nurse/Patient
Teacher/Student
Prostitute/Punter...
...while others may opt for a much more detailed account of an encounter, including specifics on how they
met, the setting and what each person is wearing.
ONE TOPIC that's growing in popularity is BDSM, which includes various scenarios revolving around dominance and submission expressed through sexual bondage for instance, as in the Master/slave roles which will often encompass a mixture of pain and pleasure – all within the boundaries agreed between two consenting adults.
WHILE the likes of Tinder and Blender are fashionable with teens, putting hookup apps on your phone while in a relationship is probably one of the worst things you can do.
IT'S LIKE putting up a giant sign saying I'M CHEATING ON YOU!
IF YOU happen to have a hookup app on your phone, our advice to you would be to delete it immediately, or risk the consequences of being found out.
ON THE OTHER HAND our app-like chat platform allows you to meet other horny adults while enjoying 100% anonymity. Isn't that the safe way to play things?
TIP: A word of advice, disable and/or clear your devices history.
ANOTHER WAY you can get caught out cheating is to leave telltale clues of what you've been up to on your device.
LOOKING at gardening sites with a view to replacing your lawnmower is not the same as leaving a trail of history linking you to having visited adult/porn websites; it will end your relationship.
TIP: Our advice, make sure it's gone and doesn't come back. Some browsers allow you to turn off your browsing history and others like Google Chrome make it more difficult.
WHILE browsing in incognito mode is sure to stop your history from being saved, it also disables some other browsing features.
HONESTLY you're not going to remember to put it in incognito mode all the time, so it's best to Disable Chrome's ability to save history.
OUR secure sex chat service is great for flirting and perfect for getting off when you're feeling horny.
ADULT SMS will suite horny guys who favour explicit conversations.
DO NOT trust third party applications for sex chat or erotic sexting, when you can utilise our secure web-to-mobile messaging feature to send messages for free.
SEARCH our adult profiles and start texting with horny UK women instantly. Just send a simple message or text to the contact details displayed on her profile page to get the ball rolling.
YOU will then be able to receive, send and share sexy pictures with the woman of your dreams.
REMEMBER to keep your personal details private. Never take risks. Don't be quick to reveal your phone number, email address, age, address or any other information that can identify you.
UNLIKE rival sites, you know that all the women here are real, aged 18 or over and live in the UK.
PLEASE NOTE:
We don't control who says what to whom.
What happens here is a private matter between consenting adults. And it's right
that it is.
IT IS also worth noting that we do not read, moderate, edit, block or otherwise interfere with private messages passing through our secure chat platform.
YOU CAN have multiple erotic encounters, created exclusively to your taste, and enjoy 100% anonymity if that's what you want.
ANONYMITY can be total, complete with fictitious identities and invented scenarios with people you don't know at all, other than through their personas.
THE DEEPER APPEAL
LIES IN THREE AREAS
UNIQUE TO OUR COMMUNITY:
FIRST men enjoy connections with lots of women. Traditional barriers to connectedness are overcome and feelings of loneliness can be alleviated.
SECOND women here can be objectified, the same as men can be. In a relationship between 'objects', no one is truly dependent, dissatisfied, or unhappy.
THIRD the women contacted by men and the sexual fantasy roleplay scenarios men prefer are under the man's control.
WHAT THIS MEANS is that if she doesn't "fit perfectly" and doesn't want to play in the prescribed ways, than another, more appropriate woman will always step in.
ALTHOUGH men crave intimacy too, many fear that gratifying their cravings will enmesh them in dependent relationships with women they aren't ready to commit too.
THERE CAN be a number of reasons for this, but that's beyond the scope of this article.
OBJECIFYING themselves and women temporarily solves this problem. The man and his willing texting partners happily exchange pics and fantasies in a mutual admiration society free of expectations, complaints, or neediness of any kind.
AND that's most people's idea of a perfect relationship.
DIRTY CHAT can be a great way to spice things up in the bedroom and is favoured by both men and women. But when it comes to sex chat, guys like to have their confidence boosted during the act.
THOSE WHO use our service vary in how much they engage in sex chat, and in their reasons for seeking sexual gratification here. Sex and love don't belong in the same bed.
RATHER than sitting at home bored, wouldn't you rather chat with girls? Wouldn't it be nice to share your interests and quirks, even your intimate fantasies that are too personal to reveal to your closest friends?
WELL WE appreciate that meeting the 'right' woman can be hard in the real world. That's where our secure sex chat platform comes into its own... anonymity gives you a place to share your most intimate thoughts with complete strangers.
FIND partners for conversation, chat about your dirtiest fantasies and much more.
TIP: If you're looking for sex chat, be specific about what type of sex you're into. Anal? Gangbang? Tantric sex? Don't be shy.
WHEN YOU like a girl here don't wait, take it to the next level. Start small and get smoothly to the point. Nobody here will judge you.
WE WOULD like to take this opportunity to respond to those who would lament the increasing popularity of adult sexting and other virtual connections.
SOME PEOPLE ignorant to the benefits of virtual sex chat and the pleasures it delivers, argue that virtual sex lacks the sensuality inherent in a real life sexual encounter and that people who engage in virtual sex chat are settling for a much lesser experience.
CLAIMS are made that individuals who engage in sex chat suffer from low self-esteem. What does a man really think of himself when he must feed his ego with phony gasps of erotic pleasure from strangers in a virtual landscape? What does a woman imagine of herself in the same barren region of sex devoid of sensuality?
SO IS sexting really so terrible and are the people who engage in these behaviours as pathetic as some outsiders suggest?
ANY ATTEMPT to substantiate such claims with scientific research would come up short.
FIRST and foremost, research in this area has shown that, by and large, men and women who engage in adult sex chat actually have greater emotional stability. Thus, it's simply not the case that there is something inherently wrong with people who are drawn to virtual hookups.
TURNING to the quality of virtual chat interactions, do they fail to meet people's needs, as some people may argue?
TO THE CONTRARY, chatters report that their virtual relationships fully satisfy their needs for emotional and social fulfilment. But those aren't the only needs that sexting can meet.
A RECENT STUDY of over 1,453 people who engage in adult sexting, 80% of participants said that virtual sex chat fulfils their sexual desires too.
PEOPLE'S online relationships can also be extremely meaningful. Not only do most sex chatters report that their virtual relationships are just as valid and important as their in-person relationships, but research has also shown that frequent exchanges with nameless partners decreases feelings of being alone and enhances self-worth.
IN ADDITION, there are certain benefits that virtual relationships offer over in-person relationships.
FOR EXAMPLE in a virtual relationship, there's zero risk of contracting and spreading sexually transmitted infections. Virtual sex also allows people to act out certain sexual fantasies in safer ways that provide them with greater control over the event, including the direction it takes and when it ends.
SEXTING may not be your thing, but we would caution against criticising those people who practice it. Bear in mind that it wasn't long ago that folks were talking about how terrible masturbation is, claiming that touching yourself is a sign of psychopathology that interferes with one's ability to develop real relationships. Which is utter nonsense, research has been pretty clear that neither masturbation nor sexting has lived up to the hype about their negative effects.
IT COULD BE ARGUED that we're appreciative to live in an age where women feel empowered to fulfil their sexual desires, whether that entails some form of virtual, solo, or in-person sexual activity.
SHAMING women who derive a sense of fulfilment from cybersex and suggesting that women cannot become sexually fulfilled unless they have the "sensuality" of a man in the flesh is offensive and strikes us as rather anti-feminist.
THE POINT here is not that everyone should start sexting each other. When it comes to sex, to each their own (assuming, of course, that the behaviour is consensual and nobody is being hurt).
WE ALL have our own personal opinions and preferences, but ask you this: what makes your sexual attitudes and behaviours more valid than someone else's?
IT MAYBE a pipe dream, but it would be nice if everyone could stop perpetuating this age-old belief that every new and different sexual behaviour is bad and spells the end of sex, love and affection as we know it.
IT SEEMS to us that we need to define sexting in the context of other relationships as well. Some people use these tools as an additional benefit to their sex life; some use virtual sex as their only sexual outlet
DIRTY TALK is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism. It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and adds a steamy air of liberation to your sexual shenanigans.
JUST LIKE sex itself, dirty talk is something that needs to be calibrated to whoever is receiving it. Maybe something that you qualify as 'dirty talk' is something the other person might find offensive, silly, or straight up insane, and vice versa.