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- 69% of women need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex — so girls, reach down and touch yourself during the deed! You feel in control of your O, and he’s sure to be super turned on. Win-win.
- For a slight shift on missionary, lie on your back, and lift your legs up and over to one side as he penetrates you. Raising your legs will make you feel mega-tight, and the angle of your hips means he’ll hit spots that rarely get hit.
- Get him to miss out the in-and-out thrusts and stir with his penis as an alternative. He’ll stimulate every inch of you (motion of the ocean and all that…).
- Perch on the rim of the washing machine and wrap your legs around his waist as he proceeds to shags you. Useful tip: The cotton cycle gives the strongest vibrations.
- In reverse-cowgirl, lean back (instead of forward toward his feet). It’s a dead cert G-spot angle for you and delivers the fantasy of a Kardashi-ass for him.
- The no. 1 rule for a great blowjob: Use your mouth (yeah right!) and both of your hands too. Take the head of his penis in your mouth, and lick and swirl your tongue around like you would a Mr. Whippy ice cream. Meanwhile, use both your hands to grip, squeeze and stroke the length of his shaft. Don’t just keep the same movement — a variety of sensation is definitely the key to a giving your fella a great blowjob!
- As an alternative to pleasuring one another at the same time with 69 oral (it’s so hard to focus!), take it in turns. One of you goes to town first, while the other groans and moans about how good it feels.
- While he’s giving you oral, have him stick a finger or two inside you and stroke your G-spot with a come-hither motion. Internal and external stimulation at the same time will boost your orgasm chances.
- Lube up! (Both of you before and during the naughtiness.) 50% of women say lube makes it easier to orgasm. And forget the fairy tale that lube is only for older women — horny girls do it too!
- If you don’t know where your partner’s dirty-talk meter is set, do a sneaky test. Ask, “What would you like me to do to you? Details, please.” And see what words they use and how randy they’re willing to be. Then just go for it.
- Get oral with your legs spread wide apart? Strengthen your orgasm by stretching your legs directly out in front of you, invigorating the pelvic muscles you use to climax. It’s mad but it works a treat.
- Lightly hold his face still, ask him to stop moving, and let him simply accept your kisses for a minute. That way, whether you like it slow or hot and heavy, he’ll know how to kiss you back.
- Vintage XXX Tip: “All women should pitch for more variety and shock value. Put on a wig, or greet your man at the door with a martini in your hand wearing nothing but high heels.”
- Just started dating? Set the standard and make sure you come first. Women often centre on their guy’s orgasm and treat themselves as a late addition. Since we’re all creatures of habit, doing the reverse will pay off in the long run.
- Get him to trace his tongue over your hot spots: wrists, inner knees, behind your ears. It’ll make you shiver with delight.
- Stand with your back to him and ask him to reach around and touch your breasts and feel his hands all over you — awesomely sexy.
- Wrap your fingers around the base of his cock, and move them in tandem with your mouth. Use lots of spit to ease the movement, and he won’t be able to tell where your mouth ends and your hands begin. Tenderly cup his balls with your other hand and prepare yourself for an explosive climax.
- Try the ‘commercial sex’ game. Start by flirting during the TV commercials of your favourite show, then stop as soon as the programme comes back on. If you’re watching a sexy film, copy the actor’s moves. As you progress from simple flirting to oral sex to making love, the teasing will become out of control and drive him crazy.
- Keep your skirt/dress on and push your lingerie aside to have sex. The immediacy of keeping some clothes on can be ultra-hot — like you can’t wait to have each other.
- The name of the hole at the tip of his dick is called the meatus, which is the most awful name given to anything, ever. (Meatus!) But it’s incredibly receptive during foreplay and arousal. With your tongue, apply medium pressure on and off. He’ll be traumatized by how amazingly good it feels!
- When you’re near to climaxing, tense and relax your muscles. This can bring about an O (and it feels wonderful to him too).
- Showers were invented for quickies! The best position for a woman is bent over, aiming the showerhead at her hot-spot while he’s doing his thing from behind. No detachable showerhead? Slick his fingers with shower gel, and get him to reach around and give you some digital happiness.
- Come up with a secret code that means ‘I want you now’. Maybe ‘get me a horny cock-tail’ translates to ‘let’s blow from here… and each other.’
- Keep telling yourself how much he’s turned on by you. Imagine his face when he’s lost in seventh heaven — knowing you can make that happen can shove across the finish line.
- Try stroking your pussy under your bath jets, or whatever works for you — get to know what sensations do it for you… is it clockwise clitoral strokes? Nipple play? Simply experiment and explore your body to find out—then introduce your favourite moves into your next steamy session.
- THE corkscrew blowjob technique. Twist your hand while you move your mouth softly up and down his shaft like you’re following the grooves of a corkscrew, and slide your tongue over the tip of his cock each time you reach it. You’ll be worship by him as a sex-goddess.
- Want to up oral and lower the pussy-pumping but find awkward to tell him? Send him a sext. Try something along the lines of ‘I can’t stop thinking about you licking my wet pussy,’ drop in a kiss or two, and hit send. It will play on his mind and chances are he will ‘dive in’ and give you a good tonguing when he gets home.
- Got a bullet vibrator? Bring it to bed. The ‘Rabbit’ gets all the credit, but using a bullet vibe on your clit while he’s pounding away doggy-style is a total game changer.
- While performing oral on him, bring his hand down so he touches you. Cover his fingers with yours so he touches you exactly where you need so you climax. It’ll turn him on, even more, to see you take control of the situation.
- Shower him with compliments about his performance (‘I love the way you…) before going on to suggest something new (‘it would turn me on so much if you used your fingers to…).
- Ramp up the tease factor by getting him to enter you – but just for a hot second – then go back into foreplay. Think of it as giving him a taste of the main course during cocktail hour. It will leave him even hungrier and be dripping for more.
- Get yourself mega-horny – maybe watch a porn video before you hook up together. You’ll feel revved up during sex as you visualise yourself in the porn movie. And he won’t know!
- Have your man jot down the three (sexy) things that drive him wild, and you do the same. Then swap notes, and take turns in to take each other to seventh heaven!
- Practice your striptease techniques. Stage your entrance from another room, take a sexy walk around him, and slowly drop your garments to reveal jaw-dropping lingerie. (Stockings and a thong topped off with some nipple tassels – or whatever your man’s fantasy.) By the time you mount him, you’ll both be dripping with anticipation. P.S. You could keep your heels on to add a little kinkiness.
- Switching hot and cold feels incredible during oral. If you’re not into an ice-cube-in-the-cheek trick, drink something cold and then something warm when you’re giving head. Or: Plop his prick out of your mouth and gently blow warm air over the tip of his dick – OMG, he will worship you forever!
- What’s the gizmo for scoring dual pleasure? A vibrating penis ring, that’s what! Your man will enjoy a nice gentle vibration on his shaft while you get to enjoy some divine clitoral stimulation each time he pumps your vagina. And your guy will experience a more explosive, fuller and harder erection.
- Can’t hook up in person? Send him a care package for his… package. Fill a box with some sexy lingerie, lube, and a sex toy, and send it to him with a little note along the lines of ‘You’ll need these things when we next date.’
- Not being allowed to make a sound during sex can be a massive turn-on, especially when the sex feels so good, you just want to express it! Try this for a spin: Stuff your thong or knickers into his mouth, and then do your magic on him until he can’t resist any long and rips the gag out of his mouth and take you.
- It’s a good thing to get into passionate kissing every day — that means kissing for more than just a couple of seconds. It fends off the dangerous flatmate syndrome, especially if you live together and spend too much time doing jobs together rather than being intimate with each other out. This is more common than you may realise!
- Making out in a public place carries a degree of risk, and so doubles the excitement of your hot encounter. The smart option is to keep your clothes on (so wear a skirt with nothing underneath for ease of access!) and do it in a place where you’ll hear someone coming – assuming, of course, the intention is NOT to get caught.
- The cherry on top when it comes to an amazing BJ is eye-contact. Give a wink, and he’ll be putty in your mouth.
- Place a pillow underneath you to lift your hips during sex in the missionary position — this will up the chances of his manhood hitting your G-spot. It will change the way you sex in the future forever, I swear.
- All girl only action: Have your partner lie on her side, propping herself up on her elbow, and straddle one of her legs so your clits rub together while ensuring you have plenty of eye contact and grind on. Scissoring girl-on-girl sex wasn’t invented for no reason!
- Here’s another vintage XXX Tip for you: Just leave all your inhibitions at the door before you hook up, and when you get to it, watch each other while touching yourselves. Triple hot with knobs on!
- Ladies, in case we (or he) forget, your clitoris extends down your labia in the form of a wishbone. So get him to lick and caress your labia — not just your clitoris — when he’s ‘down there’. This is all about delivering an amazing earth shuddering O!
- Back to showering. Ask your man to take you from behind while you bend over the bathroom sink and look at your hot, wet self in the misted-up mirror. You’ll get a front-row vision to all the seriously hot action without the stress of filming it. Awesome!
- Ask him first, and when you get a green light hold a small vibrator under his shaft or on his perineum — that’s the sensitive nerve-packed zone that lies between his balls and his bum-hole — do this while you’re giving head. Kick off with your vibe set to its lowest setting and slowly ramp up the power as his arousal builds.
- Rotate from the girl-on-top position into reverse-cowgirl (take your time to avoid any unwanted mishap as you switch positions, plus a slow-motion type move just looks so much sexier). Not only will you hit a host of new hot spots as you change angles, he’ll get the full 360-degree vision of your dazzling body.
- Fed up of receiving the same old sexts? How about keeping it simple? The hottest text you could send is simple: ‘I want you RIGHT NOW!
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