5 tips on how to orgasm during penetrative sex.
A lot of women don’t have orgasms, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
Maybe you have had an orgasm before, but only if you masturbate, or if your partner goes down on you. Both things are normal. Having an orgasm from penetrative sex can be tough because most women struggle with vaginal orgasms and can only have a clitoral orgasm. If you’ve ever had penetrative sex, then you know that stimulating your clit while a penis is thrusting inside you is not easy! So below are a few tips on how to orgasm during penetrative sex.
1. Lots of foreplay. Foreplay is really important. Don’t just immediately start having sex. Get yourself ready with lots of foreplay… touching, kissing each other all over, maybe some fingering, and maybe some oral sex. This will get you excited and turned on, and once you’re very turned on, it’s easier to actually have an orgasm. You might also want to try having a clitoral orgasm before starting penetrative sex.
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2. Prop yourself up. For many women, the trouble with orgasming during sex is that they can’t seem to stimulate their clitoris and that’s what they need to do in order to get off. It can be hard for a penis to stimulate your clit because of where it’s located. So, move things around. Try doing missionary and prop yourself up by putting one or two pillows under your bottom.
3. Stimulate the clitoris yourself. Sometimes you need to stimulate the clitoris to make things work. It’s just that it’s not always easy when having penetrative sex. So ask your partner to reach down and finger you while you’re having sex. Then find a position where it doesn’t feel completely awkward, use a little lube if needed, and touch yourself while he does his thing.
4. Doggy style can do the trick. Because of the position, your partner is most likely to stimulate your clitoris in this position – it feels good for both of you, and it’s a basic move that’s not hard to master.
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5. Try other positions. If doggy style isn’t working, then just try different things. You can just make your own or move with what feels good. A lot of people recommend doing something where you’re on top so that you have more control.
Penetrative sex: 5 tips on how to orgasm during by Emma Valasco.