Get your body and mind on the same page
Every so often, it’s normal to feel like something sucked the energy out of your sex life. But it doesn’t mean you’re stuck in a permanent state of blah. Should you want some ideas to energize your usual lovemaking, then look no further.
The Prequel
Put on a sexy movie (streaming now on Netflix: Blue is the Warmest Colour, Magic Mike, or if you can handle it, Lars von Trier’s Nymphomaniac, Vol. 1 & 2). Stay completely clothed but tease each other throughout. When it’s over, hop aboard their lap for a dry hump, gradually removing each other’s clothes and making out until it mutates into a wet hump.
The Slippery Slow Slider
Hand them a bottle of body safe lube — the warming kind if you’re feeling brave — and lie on your tummy. Languish under their slippery slow strokes—make them take their time though — until you’re begging them to please please please slide up your thighs. If they cup their lube-covered fingers over your vulva with a thumb rubbing inside, you will get the happy ending you desire.
The Yab Yum
To get out of your head, go deep with a famous Tantric pose. Your partner sits cross-legged and you sit on their lap, pressing against their pubic bone. Synchronize your breathing, gaze into each others’ eyes and rock back and forth. Almost unbearably intimate and ultra-sexy.
The Wantonness
If you’re inhibited, try getting started without him. Do what’s necessary for you to be super turned-on and you’re so far gone you can no longer care about any shyness. Then slide your hips to the edge of the bed, open your legs, and text him in. He puts his hands on the bed, holding himself up and leaving a space for your hands so you can continue your self-love. (And Wow! the visuals for him when comes in and sees you?)
Eyes Wide Shut
Lie back, put your ankles over their shoulders and shut your eyes to throw yourself into the moment. Get your partner to kneel and sit back on one foot, with their other foot by your hips. As they’re touching you, have them press against you so you can feel them getting harder or wetter.
The Power Trio
Fire up a hardcore vibrator that’s so powerful it gives you no choice but to submit to its thunder. (Try a wand-style vibe Magic Wand or LeWand—even their names get straight to the point.) Get on all fours, stick your bum out, spread your legs extra wide, and then pull the ripcord on that baby. You will be all in, in under two seconds.
The Twisted Spoon
If a boner is poking your back and you want time to catch up in the arousal department, request a massage. Not only do you get the massage, which you deserve, but plenty of time to just relax and focus on the sensations. When you’re all relaxed and ready, lie on your side for a lazy spoon but put one leg forward in front of you. He slips his top leg in between yours for super-deep vaginal penetration.
The Black Widow
An unexpected position immediately focuses your attention on what’s going down. Jump on the arm of a chair, just like a ninja, placing your feet and hands on the chair’s arms. If you can hold yourself up—and you can because you’re a ninja—you will be perfectly positioned for some solid internal stimulation and an interesting view.
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