Here’s how to love oral sex – read on for tips that will help you fully feel the satisfaction and closeness oral sex has to offer.
Often it can be hard to just let go and enjoy. It’s something of an open secret that many women don’t enjoy receiving oral sex.
You can’t be too clean when mouths are involved, and a shower can serve as sexy foreplay. So why not take a shower together? Soaping each other up is a wonderful way to explore each other’s bodies and maybe even talk about areas you like to have touched and ones you would prefer to be avoided. Below are a few ways to fight the restless mind and start enjoying oral.
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1. Concentrate on response. Pick one sensation at a time and focus on it. This is a great way to ground yourself in your body and experience pleasure to its fullest. If you still can’t cum from oral, or if it takes a long time, that’s ok too. Just communicate with your partner. Sexual activities don’t need to be goal-oriented or necessarily lead to orgasm.
2. Being playful. If you’re nervous about time, try turning oral sex into a game. Set a time limit and when it expires, move on to another activity, rather than continuing and attempting to achieve orgasm. Sometimes knowing a sensation is going to stop soon makes it more pleasurable or intense.
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3. Practice and communication. It’s important to remember that all bodies are different. What works for one person may not work for another. Some women have a very sensitive clitoris and direct stimulation may need to be very gentle. It’s also possible that direct stimulation will never be comfortable. On the other hand, some women require a great deal of stimulation, possibly more than their partner’s lips and tongue can provide. It’s essential to communicate with your partner about what you like.
Adult blog: Here’s how to love oral sex by Emma Valasco
Emma is a post-graduate sex therapist, and the lead adult blogger on xxxsexcontacts.com
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