Everything you need to know about nipples stimulation. Nipples do have a function and we all know what that is!
Most nipples look more or less the same. There are variations in colour and size. Some of us may have nipples we’ve never felt or never liked. Some of us may have nipples as adults that have changed dramatically from the way they were when we were younger. Your nipples and the nipples of people you want to have sex with can be sources of sexual pleasure. Nipples are part of the sensual roadmap to be learned. Below are some tips on nipple stimulation for you.
Each nipple is different, but before you explore the nipple, learn the basics of breast anatomy. The nipple is not an island, it’s connected to the breast and chest. The main three zones to consider are the breast, the areola, which is the area around the nipple, and the nipple itself.
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The breasts and nipples can carry a lot of personal and social meaning. Some people love having their nipples stimulated, others won’t want you near them. You may want to ask but if that kind of verbal communication doesn’t work for you. Try to be sensitive to it as you explore a new partner’s body. If you notice them tensing up or wincing when you are stimulating their nipples or breasts, take note, and move on, or ask.
While some people like very aggressive nipple stimulation, it’s always a good idea to start off slow and gentle. You don’t even need to start off with touch. If you can use your mouth to blow across your partner’s nipples, start by playing with your breath. You can blow hard through pursed lips to create a cool breeze. You can also get even closer and breathe open-mouthed, which creates a warm breath. Many nipples are highly sensitive to both touch and temperature. So as you are exploring try to notice how both your partner and their nipples are responding.
For some people that will be their fingers, for others, it might be their lips or tongue. For someone else, it might be another body part. Whatever you are using, start off with a mild touch. Starting gently can give the body time to rise up to the stimulation. There are almost endless ways to touch, but the key is to build up in both speed of stimulation and pressure.
Use a circular motion or if you are using your hand and fingers, gently across the breast and then bring your fingers together – so that by the time your fingertips come together they are at the nipple. Massage around the nipple, teasing the area and not touching it at all. This will create much more stimulation around the nipple before zeroing in on it.
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If you already know your partner likes their nipples stimulated, you can start with the nipple. Come at it from above and gently begin to rub or run circles around it. Then you can spread out your stimulation, around the areola and then the chest. Or you can just start with the tip of your finger on the nipple and without taking your finger off the nipple move your hand so that you create a kind of pointed vibrating feeling.
Also, you can slowly open your lips so the nipples come into contact with your open mouth and at some point introduce your tongue. Try using your tongue to play with the nipple. Play with circular and lapping motions, each will feel different for your partner. The flat surface of your tongue has a distinct texture from the tip.
If you know your partner likes more intense stimulation, or you suspect they might, you can use your teeth, cautiously at first. Don’t bite down quickly or hard! If you want to explore their nipples, start by simply putting a nipple gently between your teeth and leaving it there. Then, use your tongue to stimulate the nipple, but don’t create too much pressure with your teeth – that can hurt. Ouch!
Adult blog: Everything you need to know about nipples stimulation by Emma Valasco, sex therapist and adult blogger on XXX Sex Contacts.
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