Dirty Talk
Dirty talk: There is a right way and a wrong way to introduce dirty talk to a woman if you want to turn her on, build sexual tension and keep her sexually obsessed with you…
The wrong way is to ‘rush it’ or to ‘force’ it.
The right way is to build up to talking dirty gradually. Gradually does not mean slowly.
Gradually means that you need to start off talking dirty by saying things that are quite tame, so that you can judge her reactions and proceed appropriately. If her reactions are good, then you can proceed and start talking even dirtier.
Sounds easy, right?
Well, not every girl responds enthusiastically straight off when it comes to talking dirty…
If her reactions are negative or she seems disinterested, then it’s usually a case of her not being totally comfortable with how you are going about it. With this in mind, today I am going to teach you how to start talking dirty to your sex contact with confidence…
You’re also going to learn some examples of what to say to arouse her and turn her on.
Let’s start with the 2 most important things that you must consider if you want to succeed with talking dirty to her…
- Setting the Stage for Fantasy Role Play
The is the most important aspect to keep in mind if you want to talk dirty in a way that turns her on and builds sexual tension.
If she is in the middle of something or if she is concentrating on something else, then it’s a really bad time to start talking dirty to her. In other words:
Make sure that you avoid any potentially stressful situations before you start talking dirty to her.
This is very obvious, but unfortunately many men make the mistake of trying to talk dirty to a girl when she is just not in the mood for it.
Taking all of this into account, the best setting to start talking dirty would be the bedroom.
However, you can also experiment in other places. Some like to pretend they have had a little bit to drink and are sitting together on the couch or when they are already having fun together, like at a party.
The key for you is to find the place where your sex contact is most comfortable and is most likely to get into acting out her part to the full. Fortunately, you will never have a problem with the girls here!
- What Kind Of Girl Is She?
This second consideration is very important. It doesn’t matter if your girl is super confident or super shy. What is important is:
- Is she open to new things, especially sex fantasy role play?
- Does she like it when you take control?
If your answer to both questions is ‘yes’, then she will be very easy to talk dirty to and you can proceed quite quickly with talking dirty to her.
But if your answers are ‘kind of’ or ‘sort of’ or ‘no’ then she will be a little bit more resistant to you talking dirty. This is not a major problem. It just means that it will take a little longer to get to a point where she is fully comfortable with you talking dirty. This is never an issue with the girls here.
Answering these 2 questions should give you a good idea of how easy and how quickly you can start talking dirty to her.
The next part is introducing it to her (including examples of what to say)…
What To Say
Like I’ve said previously, you don’t want the first thing you say to be something like:
“I want to fuck you with my rock-hard, massive cock and then cum on your face!”
You need to test the waters first with something a little tamer to make sure that she is comfortable.
Examples
“I would really like to take you from behind.”
“I would love it with you on top and in control.”
All girls want to hear positive things and have their egos boosted.
Saying these things will automatically make her feel more confident and comfortable. Once you have given her some flattering comments, you need to take it to the next level.
Try these on for size…
“I would love to fuck you doggy style.”
“I’m the kind of guy that loves a girl who is dominant.”
“You make my cock so hard.”
Again these dirty talk examples are not too ‘crazy’. We are just using them to gauge her reaction and make sure that she is comfortable with you talking dirty.
You now have a choice. If she is comfortable with you talking dirty, then you can keep building up the intensity of your dirty talk where you get dirtier and more sexual. Or you can hold off for now and go a little further the following night.
There is no need to rush this. The faster you go with talking dirty, the more likely she is to get ‘freaked out’.
However, if you take it a little slower and build up the amount of dirty talk you use over a number of nights, there is a much better chance of her really enjoying it and talking dirty back!