Anal Sex: How To Get It
by Samantha a long-time fan, practitioner and self-confessed anal sex addict
For many people this is one of the taboo topics we should never talk about and for many men, getting their partner to open up and consent to having anal sex is like trying to part the Red Sea.
By the way, it’s not just men doing the giving while women receive, women also do the giving via dildos and strap-ons. However, they all have the same reason for engaging in anal sex. It feels good, it’s most satisfying and the recipient’s intense pleasurable reaction to the act of anal penetration.
The fact that semen can stay in your arse and be noticeable hours later, or the next morning, can also be a turn on for many women.
For heterosexual men, part of the desire is due to the taboo nature of the subject; and it’s very much about their partner being trusting enough to allow them to do it – the fact that they are willing to be vulnerable in that way. Trust forms a massive part of anal sex between consenting adults.
There’s no denying that the overall sensation of anal sex is much tighter than having your penis in a woman’s vagina, which some men find much more stimulating.
A man having anal sex with a woman is the ultimate act of sexual domination. While oral sex allows the woman to retain some control over the encounter, anal sex is the absolute in submissive intercourse.
Also from talking to people (and reading what they write), it’s not just men that are driving the renewed interest in this topic. Not surprisingly (to me, anyway), it seems lots of women really like it, and nowadays feel free to indulge.
When I drill a man with one of my strap ons, vibrator or a double-headed dildo, a transformation in him occurs. For some people, anal sex is no better or worse than vaginal sex, but it is a different sensation entirely that can’t be put into words. Whether giving or receiving you have to try it to appreciate the pleasure it brings. But everyone who tries anal sex is agreed on one thing, and that’s the part that makes it so incredibly hot is the necessity to take it slow.
Some women won’t consider it. Some women can’t live without it. But almost every woman is getting asked for it!
By the numbers:
More women than ever—45 percent—are trying anal sex, according to the latest research from a well known institute.
Looking for another reason to try anal sex? Anal sex is a form of Birth Controlled Sex
It’s a no-brainer. Vaginal sex makes babies. Anal sex 100% doesn’t.
Kinky Wild Side
I prefer to be a bad bitch because it’s just so much more fun to be devilishly mischievous and wear tight black leather. Girls, the fact that your tight little back door is forbidden and taboo will make your wild kinky side come out. There’s something alluring and mysterious about the dark side, dangerous and edgy. I might choose to be a lady in the streets but I’m transformed between the sheets.
Anal sex tips from a sexy, wild, mistress-like vixen
Anal sex can hurt if you’re not lubed up and relaxed. Plus it can be TIGHT – which is why men LOVE it!
Handing over the ‘I trust you with my a-card’ is something rare and really special. Guys, you should feel privileged not just powerful! Anal sex is a gift not to be taken for granted – she’s not saying ‘here’s my tight little hole for you to rip up’.
It’s powerful because anal sex is sex in its rawest form. It’s purely physical without thought to pregnancy.
Anal sex is powerful for both men and women. Power for a man because he dominates and controls the situation and his shaft is feeling so good being so tightly stroked. Powerful for a woman because it means embracing her desire and willingness to allow her body to be a sex object for her man. And seriously, what man won’t come back for more of that?
Intense Orgasms
This is my favourite reason.
Sadly, 66% of women are FAKING IT. Statistically only 34% of women experience an actual orgasm. Ladies, the first step to a real orgasm is to actually enjoy sex and embrace the crazy dirty hot nasty side of it.
Relax… he thinks that you’re pretty damn hot, especially when you’re bent over offering that forbidden fruit. Luckily, anal sex, like doggy style, allows the shaft to hit a woman’s g-spot at a different angle.
Try it out, you and your sex partner can thank me later.
Samantha xx