BBW SEX CONTACTS: BBW Fat Women Robee’s candid interview about why some men and women have a fat fetish.
In an earlier article we looked at macrophilia (sexual gratification and excitement from BBW’s) and crush fetishes (sexual gratification and excitement from squashing or being squashed), and there appears to be some psychological comparison between BBW squashing and other sexual fetishes. For instance, some macrophiles prefer women who are particularly tall (so called ‘Amazons’) even if they have to pay for the opportunity to do so. For instance, Robee, 62, (who, when wearing her fetish boots, is 6’, and 5’ 6” without the boots) offers private one-on-one sessions with macrophiles to engage in role play fantasies such as trampling.
This has a lot of similarities with BBW squashing. Studies have been undertaken into both sadomasochistic sexual activity and fat fetishes, but little on where they intersect.
Personalities are regularly twisted online. Certain personality characteristics can be amplified, others hidden.
Whole bodily appearances can be exaggerated or understated, depending on how secret a user wants to be as they interact with other users – particularly when they are unlikely to meet in the real world.
BBW fat women. Meet Robee. She’s a BBW from the Midlands. She doesn’t choose to conceal anything. Despite the anonymity that separates her from her admirers, there is nothing false about her body. It’s very real and she is proud of what she has.
In order to attract men with a fetish for BBW’s he was prepared to big herself up, in a very literal way – although she doesn’t do that anymore.
Robee is 6’ tall (in boots) and weighs 300lbs. That’s very real.
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Her unmodified dimensions include enormous GG cup tits. And to her army of fetish admirers, who revel with her in extended role play sessions and ‘big girl’ fantasies, she’s pretty much faultless.
We talk to Robee about things like exploitation, squashings (when men fantasise about her bouncing on them) and other treats on offer as part of her BBW scenarios.
BBW Fat Women. Is the fantasy associated with being squashed the definitive driving force behind why men contact her in their droves?
It depends. There are so many different kinds of ‘BBW admirers’.
Some men are not into a squashing fantasy at all, they just prefer big ladies. Some are simply into seeing hardcore pics of fat women in the buff .
It all depends on what their sub-fetish is – but for some men, a big woman in any circumstances is their ultimate craving.
What is the most popular request you get from admirers?
Probably pic swapping, guys seem keen to seem me head-to-toe exposed.
But not all requests are for pictures. I also get plenty of requests to engage in fantasy role play sessions covering domination and submission, including force-feeding. I cater for every kind of BBW fantasy.
Can you describe the kind of men who choose contact you?
BBW Fat Women. There is no particular type, as I receive requests from both single and married men of all ages from 20 to 60. I do have a very large fan base across the UK.
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How did you get into this service?
I came across the site and liked the way it operates, particularly the safety and confidential nature of it. It is very important for women to feel safe and not all online websites offer the level of security offered by XXX Sex Contacts.
I have a profile on the site and offer to share sexy pics with my admirers, and many of my male followers like to send photos of themselves to me which is always a huge turn-on for me.
Do you sense there’s a certain sort of man that appreciates BBW’s?
No, not really. I’m not convinced there’s a definite sort of man, because the men who contact me come from all over the UK and from very diverse backgrounds.
However, I tend to catch the attention of nerdy guys, but that’s perhaps because that’s my personality, too.
I believe it’s just a preference – like whether you like blue eyes, or blonde hair. All different types of men love big women.
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How much do you tend to eat in a typical day?
I don’t actually keep a record as such, but imagine I eat around 3,000 calories a day. I do lots of things other than eat! That said, I like fast food and often eat quite late at night. I start the day somewhat sensibly and then eat more and more through the day. I’m certainly a midnight foodster.
I can eat a lot – when I’m doing a major stuffing session I can work my way through three big Mac’s and a whole cheesecake. But that’s after a lot of training! When I first started with food stuffing sessions it was a matter of stretching my stomach.
I sometimes skip eating until lunchtime. In the evening, I usually grab a takeaway high in fat and finger licking good!
Have you always been big?
Yes. I was always a fat child and often got bullied at school which made me eat more and so I got even bigger.
After that I think going on the pill threw my body out of sync which resulted in me gaining still more weight. And that was not deliberate.
But have you consciously eaten food to put on more and more weight?
I’ve put on over 70lbs deliberately but I’m no longer actively trying to increase my weight because I don’t want to feel uncomfortable and less able to do things.
I was in a car accident a couple years ago and suffered a lasting injury to one of my legs and as a consequence of that I can’t really walk that far without my leg hurting. What I’d say is that I’m happy with where I am at the moment –so let’s not tempt fate!
Is that because you hope to avoid health problems in later life?
Of course. The car accident is one of those events in my life that if weighed less my leg would probably have healed better than it has.
I’m getting older – I’m 62 now. If I was 20, or 25, being around 300lbs would be easy!
The thing about this lifestyle is that it’s not sustainable forever. There has to be a cut off at some point – and for me, I want it to be when I’m at ease with myself and my body image. And that’s now.
You and your husband made the choice jointly for you to stop gaining weight. Is that because you want to keep him for yourself?
I’m bisexual so like to play with ladies too. My husband clearly benefits from that.
It’s part of my job to flirt with men – but he knows that I’m still loyal to him. It isn’t as if I’m a prostitute, I don’t get paid for sex.
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How did you meet your husband?
He was actually one of my admirers.
He messaged me on here and tried to come over all witty and smooth. I guess it’s fair to say that there was an immediate chemistry and attraction. Sometimes one instinctively knows when things feel right!
I really teased him and remember asking: ‘what do you like to do other than flirt with BBW’s and look at naked fat girls?’ That was a bit of an icebreaker and we became friends and flirted from that moment on.
We lived in different counties at the time so when he visited friends in the Midlands we would hook up. He’d been asking me for ages to meet and eventually I said yes. And the rest, as they say, is history!
He’s my soul mate. I knew pretty well straightaway that he was the one for me.
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Do you tend to feel exploited or empowered?
I feel much empowered, yes, when men contact me. I’ve never felt exploited, no, never.
The feminist movement usually argue that all women working in the adult industry are being exploited by men. Suffice to say that is not how I feel or even see it.
I am in control at all times and can block anyone from contacting me if things go badly wrong and that’s empowering.
Its worth mentioning that not all my admirers are men because I’m bisexual I offer my services to women who love themselves and love their size.
To me, being on ‘XXX Sex Contacts’ is not exploitation, rather an empowering experience.
Going along with what the rest of the world thinks would make me feel bad about myself just because I’m large… well, I love being big.
To me, it’s extremely empowering. I get to interact with hansom men and attractive women who are free spirits and comfortable with their own bodies – what could be more empowering than that?
BBW Fat Women.
Pam, 54, a BBW from Burnley in the Northwest wants to know – what men who use this site love about BBW’s like me?
So fellas, what’s the answer to Pam’s question?
Kevin responded by saying: Hi Pam, because for the most part, BBWs are more appreciative and more giving sexually. Also, many BBW’s I’ve come across have low self-confidence so when a man shows a genuine interest a BBW tends to be more relaxed about the way she looks. Skinny women, on the other hand, are generally not as appreciative or as giving when they have sex – this might be because they have greater high self-confidence and take sex for granted, they have lot’s more willing men fighting over them I guess. But that’s just my take on it Pam.
OK guys, you may agree or disagree with Kevin, either way please it would be good to hear from you. You can contact us anytime using the Contact Form on our contact page. We would also like to hear from you if you are a BBW – what do you think? Do you suffer from a lack of self-confidence as Kevin suggests?
BBW Fat Women.
BBW and men’s fat fetishes include:
- Face-Sitting: This requires the man (the submissive) lying on his back whilst the BBW opens her legs and squats on his face, lowering her delicious pussy onto the sub missive’s mouth. The submissive then proceeds to suck her vagina’s lips and flick her clitoris with his tongue – ideally pleasuring her to competition. The BBW will move and slide around to enhance the man’s pleasure and her experience.
- 69: This sex position involves the man lying flat on the bed while the BBW lies on top of him so that she can suck his erect cock whilst he can lick out her pussy. Both the man and the woman can then easily stimulate each other’s genitals with the object of achieving a mutual orgasm.
- Back-Lying: This is when the man lays on his back with the BBW sitting on him crushing his chest or face.
- Leg-Captivity: The BBW wraps the man’s head between her legs with the man facing either her pussy or ass. The man may find himself being suffocated in this position and will need to gesture to the BBW that he can’t breathe.
- Riding Horse Man: This position (is probably obvious by the name) involves the BBW riding her man like a horse while he is on all fours. This is a position which will increase the man’s sexual stimulation.
- Double BBW: This is when two BBS’s sit on a man in any variation of the positions described above.
BBW Fat Women.
Stop kidding yourselves guys! You know you love BBW’s.
Hi, my name’s Sammy, I’m 28 years old from Middlesbrough and I’ve been on the plus-size, chubby, big-boned, fat side of things (whatever adjective you care to use) my whole life. And I’m OK with it. Yes, some people have issues about weight and even enjoy teasing others for being fat, but at the end of the day I’ve always been cool with being a heavier girl.
I’ve had the misfortune to come across bitches in my life that have thought it fun be mock me about my weight, but I’ve never had any off-putting comments from men.
Truth is lots of guys love women who are big and beautiful women, as we larger ladies prefer to call ourselves.
Before someone chooses to disagree and claim that men don’t BBW’s and prefer thin babes, let me tell you this. You are wrong. All the sexual interest I’ve had in my life has come from the guys I’ve met and they are of all ages and all backgrounds.
Loads of men prefer a woman to have great curves. Now it’s acceptable for guys to show their interest in bigger women when, to honest, men have always drooled over bigger women all along. I literally have hundreds of personal messages from guys admiring my curves and asking if they can I have a pic.
It always surprises me that some men want to keep their love of BBW’s a secret when, in truth, they are very much longing to get their thirst quenched by one of us — and I have many messages to prove it!
It gets to me that some women think their thinness will make a man be more attracted and loyal to them rather than a BBW. It’s just not true, not in all cases anyway. Both thin chubby women can be attractive. Both thin and chubby women can be cheated on. But more significantly, both thin and chubby women are desired by men.
BBW Fat Women.