ELAINE, Speke, Liverpool
Bi-sexual! I don’t look at people as men and women anymore. I just look at them as potential partners. How much fun can I have with each individual person is more important than what sex they are.
There is so much out there for us to explore, that anything is possible. Women can be tender and sweet, or very wild! The same goes for men, and to me there is nothing hotter than a man or women that leaves you options. The toys and anticipation of it all adds to same-sex relationships. Learning all that you can about the other person is so very sexy. It also helps us all to learn a little more about our own bodies, our likes, and our dislikes. I guess you could say I am heteroflexible! lol ๐
Bi-sexual
When I find a particular individual at XXX Sex Contacts who intrigues me, or who fits my emotional or physical needs as a sex partner, it doesn’t matter which sex they are. I have had a few people ask me in the past ‘how could you be sexually fulfilled by another a woman?’ If the sexual chemistry is mutual, there’s always plenty of ways to explore each other in the bedroom, and find out how to meet each other’s sexual needs, regardless of the gender!
I think that a lot of men think we girls here judge them for being bisexual but we don’t. We like that we get to play with someone who isn’t judgmental off the bat. When they are honest with us we get to be honest with them. We like that they aren’t stuck inside ‘the box’, but I find that some people are often afraid to step out of it. I will do my best to drag you kicking and screaming out of the straight box because the real guy, with his real fantasies, is WAY hotter than the guy that won’t tell you about his fantasies.
An open-minded guy is such a turn on. If a man is willing to explore the bisexual (or bi-curious) side of himself, I find it very hot. A confession of my own; when I was with my ex-boyfriend I used to fantasise about him being with another guy!