A newbie guide to foot fetish, including some foot play ideas you can both enjoy
By Maxine Black
If you’re a woman who has ever worn sandals, stilettos or any type of shoe which exposes your toes, there’s a good chance you’ve been eyed up and not where you might have thought. Some people are put off by the thought of touching, licking or sucking someone else’s foot or toes, and I’m not sure why. Is it simply another case of feet being a part of our body we’re supposed to be embarrassed about? I like my feet, they are responsible for getting me from A to B whenever I want.
There are some people who have very sensitive feet, and simply don’t like them being touched. That’s okay, I get it. But they can still be admired in numerous other ways. The crucial fact of the matter is that foot fetishes are very common. Foot worship itself is one of the basic moves in Domination – when someone is made to do something so demeaning and sickening as licking your feet, that’s when they feel at their most submissive.
Foot Fetish
If you think your partner has a foot fetish, then I have a few tips to get you started. A quick heads-up before I get into it – although there are female foot fetishists out there, I’m coming at this from the angle of a straight woman playing with a man. (And if you’re not sure about trying out any of the ideas I’m going to talk to you about, then just look on the bright side – chances are your feet have already been desired, but without you even knowing it!)
Despite what some of you may think, domination isn’t just about whips and chains. Domination is basically all about one partner pleasing the other, so a daily foot massage on the sofa could certainly become part of your routine – isn’t that great!? And if you’re concerned about cracked heels or funky nails, make that part of it too. Get him to buy the cream and a pedicure set… and if he’s a ‘good boy’ he might be allowed to paint your toenails. Don’t feel uncomfortable about how your feet look – it will be his job to perfect them.
When it comes to foot fetishists and footwear in particular, one size does not fit all. Some are into sandals, some are turn-on by heels, others stilettos, some people just love bare feet. Find out what your partner prefers, but you should also try-out different types and styles of footwear – what do you like wearing? What makes you feel dominant and sexy? You don’t even have to be able to walk in them. I have a massive pair of stilettos that I adore, but can only wear sitting down – which definitely doesn’t stop the fun! My only advice is that you need something that’s patent. To put it bluntly, make sure they’re ‘wipe clean’.
I suggest you start with a typical Domination session by getting the sub to lick your shoes. Make him go all over your shoe with his tongue before finally sucking the heel in a tease before taking your shoes off and allowing him to lick your bare feet.
You can do even more if he’s really into your sexy soles. Make him lie on his back, and suck off each of your toes, one by one. Tell him you want his tongue to go around each toe, in and out of the gaps between and then push as many toes into his mouth as you can, just to see how much he can take. Run your foot down his body (don’t be afraid to sit down, it is better than falling over, as I’ve learned from bitter experience), dig your toes into his nipples. But it’s important to keep him going back to licking, sucking and kissing your sexy tootsies.
Footjob
Footjob, yes, it’s a real thing. Place his penis between the arches of your feet and… slowly rub it. This doesn’t always work out perfectly for everyone as feet aren’t as agile as your hands, but with practice and patience it can be mastered and your foot lover will get off on it.
There are many ways you can arouse a man’s penis with your feet – just having his cock rubbed by your feet may do it – the excitement can be enough. So just go with whatever you find comfortable. (I always add an extra factor by saying that if he makes my feet ‘messy’, he would have to lick it up. But maybe that’s more for the next level up!).
Bend him over and wear him like a sock. How many toes you can fit up his bottom will depend on how well you lube up!
Toeing
Toeing is the female equivalent of a footjob – i.e. rubbing your toes against another girl’s clitoris. Admittedly, this can escalate quickly. But don’t worry, it’s rarely reciprocal. Just because they want to play with your paws does not mean you’re obliged to start messing around with his hooves. Not at all!
Some of these ideas may seem a bit intense – but that’s where good communication comes in. Just because your partner likes your feet doesn’t mean he was an extreme foot fetish. It could just mean he likes your feet as a pretty extension of you. Some men, however, will have spent that whole tube journey imagining your feet in their mouth. So always best to check where on the scale your own little foot-lover lies. At the end of the day, liking feet is not odd or unusual. It can in fact be quite hot. It’s intimate, sensual, and is one of the rare breeds of fetishes where there doesn’t have to be any fussy equipment or positions. After all you can both take pleasure in a foot massage whilst watching Netflix!
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