by Giolla (49 year old cougar)
For the man who likes to be submissive in the presence of a dominant female, a mature woman is likely to be naturally more assertive, less timid and will have a clearer sense of who she is and what she wants.
When it comes to men, mature women are less inclined to play games and waste your time playing hard to get; they’re less possessive and generally less jealous as a woman five or 10 years younger.
Women 45 plus are more likely to cut to the chase and be upfront about their feelings – on a take it or leave it basis. That kind of forthrightness is refreshing; it can even be a turn-on. And it’s one of the main attractions of bedding mature women.
Mature women have more sexual experience than younger women. One of the most common reasons men cite for wanting to have sex with mature women is for the superior sex. Simply put, older women are better in bed. Mature women don’t suffer from those insecurities and anxieties that can negatively impact on your sex life. Older women tend to be more comfortable in their own skin. What’s more they know how to make the bedroom more exciting and interesting. They’ve graduated beyond the bedroom basics and their experience often makes them more willing to try new things.
Men who have bedded older women say they are better at sex than their younger counterparts. Mature women know their bodies, they aren’t squeamish about trying adventurous sex, they know what they like and what men like.
John 27 said: “I’ve been with a couple of women my age that were pretty crazy in bed, but the ones that have really blown my mind have all been over 45. One was divorced and one wasn’t, but both of them were hungry for it in a way that women my own age just aren’t.
“The older woman was divorced, has no desire to get married and just wants to have fun. She gave the best oral I’ve ever had, she didn’t treat it like a chore, didn’t constantly give me ‘romance eyes’ when she went down on me. Mature women score A+.
“Younger women want to feel pretty, older women want to get off and get you off. That’s the difference.”
It’s no secret that older women are better at sex. They’re better at flirting too. They’re pretty much better at everything.
Mature women understand that it doesn’t have to mean something every time you have sex and they don’t care as much about the circumstances around it. You
aren’t renting them. Older women call you when they want you. Younger women call you when they want you to want them.
A sexual encounter with a cougar will be remembered as some of the best sex of your life.
The benefits will continue when you’re ready for a long-term relationship with a girl of your own age.
One result of having sex with an older more sexually experienced partner is that you will be hard pressed to find a better tutor.
- Older women are spontaneous and comfortable when it comes to being naked
- They know when to be dominant and when to be submissive
- Mature women know the psychological and physical benefits of having regular sex
- They don’t have any delusions that they’re going to hook you into a marriage contract or start a family
- Older women are not as needy or demanding as women in their 20s
- They’ve been taught by a variety of partners and know what they like and what a man likes.
An older woman’s self-awareness comes from years of experience and communicating with different sexual partners. They’ve tried different positions, techniques, and fetishes. They’ve self-pleasured themselves for many years, and aren’t afraid of communicating the stuff that really gets them purring.
A cougar knows exactly what she wants, which buttons a man needs to press and, importantly, she knows her way around a man’s body and how to satisfy him.
Hope you enjoyed my blog post 😉
Love Giolla x