11 women recall their first ‘one night stand’

One night stand confessions: I spent the night sandwiched between her legs and it was magnificent.

“Freshers’ week at university. The first night I’m out, I see the most stunning girl I’d ever seen in my life. And no one’s paying any interest in her so I launch myself. We do the typical dance of ‘am I just complimenting you because we’re both girls or is this gay?’

Ultimately we go out for a smoke and I think, fuck it, so I lean in and kiss her. She doesn’t even finish her [cigarette] before dragging me off to her room. I spent the night between her legs and it was magnificent. Unlike anything, I’d experienced before. I could have died there and then and been contented. The next morning we had breakfast and I wrote down my number for her, and she promised she’d ring me. Only she didn’t and months of anguish followed. I was like, 18 and a little inexperienced and dramatic.” [via]

One night stand confessions: I felt safe with him and we had amazing chemistry.

“It was too satisfying. I had just come out of a three-year relationship with the only guy I had ever been intimate with. Thought, fuck it, I’m going to go party and live it up. First night out being single and I accidentally met the most amazing person in the world. I had no idea what I was doing, but I knew I was safe with him and we had amazing chemistry. He was a little older and knew exactly what to do and when.” [via]

One night stand confessions: 

I was on my period. It was fine.

“I met him at a conference. He was visiting from out of town on another weekend and I let him stay at my place. I was on my period. It was fine. The guy was hot and nice.” [via]

One night stand confessions: Underwhelming.

“Very underwhelming 1/10, would not repeat.” [via]

One night stand confessions: I felt pretty awful honestly.

“I thought he actually liked me (two dates) and just sat on my bed looking defeated and sad. After, he told me to consider it an ONS and showed himself out. We met [on] an American dating site, so I guess he thought he got permission to try that shit. When he contacted me the next day I let him have it, pretending nothing was wrong/wanting to do it again! I never willingly had one, I was always tricked into thinking it was more. I felt pretty awful honestly.” [via]

One night stand confessions: We cuddled and talked for quite some time.

“Was visiting my older sister at [uni] when I was in my [first year]. Her roommates had friends visiting as well. Really hit it off with a guy who was super cute, and funny and kind. We all ended up going to a play and grabbed dinner before going to a party. He and I ended up hooking up in my sister’s guest room that night. This was the third guy I ever slept with and first/only one-night stand. The next morning he brought in coffee, and we cuddled and talked for quite some time.

“We texted back and forth, tried to set up a time to see each other again (we lived three hours away), but I was so shy about the entire situation and was completely blind to the fact that he liked me a lot (confirmed by sister and her roommate a few months later).” [via]

One night stand confessions: It was disappointing, I never did it again.

“My one and only ONS was with an acquaintance of several years. It was meh, he and I had different styles, and he wanted to do things I wasn’t comfortable with. He didn’t push the issue, but it definitely changed the mood of the evening. I didn’t orgasm, he didn’t either. It was disappointing, I never did it again.” [via]

One night stand confessions: I feel horrible because I wasn’t truly interested in him.

“The only one night stand I did was back in high school when I lost my virginity. I never saw it as some holy thing I needed to cherish. One night at a party, I got with a stranger in the back of his car. It was bad sex, like, tiny car, I’m quite tall and he was shorter than me. Neither of us finished. Very awkward yet he really wanted to take me on a date properly afterwards. I feel horrible because I wasn’t truly interested in him, and in a way I led him on. The next morning I apologised straight to his face and that was that.” [via]

One night stand confessions: His mum was in the next room.

“It was awful. There was zero physical attraction, his mum was in the next room, Family Guy was playing in the background. Did I mention we were both 23? I felt like a teenager. Anyway, he ended up finishing, taking off the condom and then putting his raw dick back in me.” [via]

One night stand confessions: I just felt awkward and was stuck in my head.

“I’ve only had one, and after the experience, it will probably be the only one I ever have. I met him on Tinder whilst I was early on the rebound after my first ever serious relationship. He was nice, attractive, all the things I look for in a guy but I definitely wasn’t in a place to date anyone. So I thought ‘why not?’ when he invited me back to his place after our date.

The sex was worse than mediocre, he was selfish in bed and because there was no real connection between us, I just felt awkward and was stuck in my head for it. Periodically through the night he’d roll over and hump me until he came like he was just trying to fill his quota for the month. All in all, I learned my lesson that I prefer sex with a connection, so one night stands with strangers just isn’t for me.” [via]

One night stand confessions: It’s still one of my favourite sex memories.

“First hook up was my first time, actually. So one of the guys I knew from school was house sitting right down the street for me, told me I should come over. So I did. We started playing pool and I asked him to show me how it’s done, so he got real close showing me how to properly hold the stick and line up the shot, and that was the catalyst. Next thing we know, we’re making out and grinding.

Then we ended up doing it right there on the pool table. It was pretty good. I didn’t know it at the time, but looking back it’s still one of my favourite sex memories. And he was pretty big, so some of it was a little uncomfortable… but it wasn’t like I hadn’t been penetrated before (I had a dildo already by then).” [via]

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