Pay far more attention to your girl’s breasts
Plenty of guys play with a girl’s breasts during foreplay, but overlook them when making love, which is a big mistake because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger orgasm for her. And, it’s key to pay attention to more than just a girls nipples, as a girl’s breasts are full of nerves, particularly the underside.
Pro-tip: When she’s on top, use your fingertips to gently draw circles, starting with the outside of one breast slowly spiral in until you’re just about to touch her nipple. Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and use your tongue to lick her nipple, before covering it fully with your mouth and gently sucking it.
G-Spot orgasms
This much-talked-about spot is located about 2 inches inside your woman’s vaginal canal on the front wall. It’s a small spongy spot, but it can feel firm, so just arouse that general area during sex and she will have a more powerful orgasm. To hit it with your penis, try this adapted doggie-style. Instead of having her keep her arms straight with her palms on the bed, ask her to lower herself onto her elbows. Holding her hips for balance, thrust your cock slowly into her vagina, and then build up the intensity as you go. With each stroke, your penis will rub against the front wall of her vagina, stimulating her G-spot.
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Surprise your lady with a quickie
When you jump her out of the blue, it makes her feel like she’s so appealing that you simply can’t wait to have her. Right when she gets home, pull her in for a deep kiss and lead her by the hand to your sofa, bed, or even kitchen table, where you will have already stashed a bottle of lube nearby. Don’t fully strip her; just lift up her skirt or pull down her knickers. Then use your lubed fingers to massage her clitoris while whispering how hot she is. The more aroused you are, the faster she’ll get into it. (Of course, there will be times when she’s not game. If that happens, let it go and try another night.)
Gently pull her hair
She has nerves in her scalp which, when she’s aroused become more sensitive, so gently pulling on her locks will feel extra stimulating. If you do it while you’re having sex with her from behind, it’ll make her feel like you’re treating her like a slut… which may be good or bad! When she’s riding you, simply run your fingers through her hair, grab a handful of strands near her scalp, and give it a gentle pull. This works very well when you’re having intense, passionate sex, because grabbing her hair, adds to the feeling she’s being ravished.
Filthy talk
Women are verbal creatures and our love of words applies in the bedroom too. Alas, most of what guys may have heard in a porn video is wrong (Ask “Who’s your daddy” and you just might get a slap across the face). What every woman longs to hear are phrases that let her know just how turned on you are by her, how much you love her body, and how good you want to make her feel. And even more important than what you say is the way you say it—she wants to hear a burning lust in your voice. Get it right, and she will be on fire.
Nibble and kiss her neck
The skin that stretches from underneath her ear to her collarbone is very thin, making it supersensitive to the touch. Start out by using your tongue to lick from her ear down to where her neck and shoulders meet. Then blow along the trail you just left. The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of your breath will send a tingle all over her body. After that, get a little more forceful, and lightly nip the bottom of her neck (the skin is slightly thicker there and can take a little more pressure). You should suck on her neck too but for just a second and not hard enough to leave her with what could end up as an embarrassing love bite!
Bring her to climax with oral sex
A delicious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and take pleasure in what you’re doing. (Sound familiar?) But different techniques can feel more or less satisfying to her depending on her mood. To work out what’s best, my advice is to use a range of moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to best. When she’s close to cumming —her body will tense up and she’ll be breathing more rapidly—go back to doing whatever you did to cause her to tense up and moan in ecstasy, and continue doing it DO NOT STOP until she climaxes.
Touch her hot spot mid-action
Most women can’t orgasm during intercourse without having their clitoris being stimulated, which is perhaps why so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from behind are two great positions for access), you should rub her hot spot. Your touch should be slow and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic mound—you will know when you get it right, trust me, it will be obvious. 🙂
Kiss her during sex
If you’re like most guys, when making love, you will stop kissing her. That’s a bad move since kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her (and you), which is central to female satisfaction. My advice is to choose a position that allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or with her sitting on you, then mix up your smooches so they echo the mood of the sex you’re having. If you’re going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a deep, tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When things are slow and romantic, go with more sensual kisses.
Be more dominant
The number one thing women want is for you to be dominant in bed. That means handling her body with strength and confidence, which can be insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t require a lot of work or advanced skills on your part either. In fact, doing just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal level. You might want to try these: In missionary, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress. When she’s on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. When changing positions, grab her and put her where you want her, be dominant.
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