SEXTING ADVICE: When you use XXX Sex Contacts, you are free to be totally yourself sexually and talk about all your sexual fantasies in a way that you couldn’t – and can’t – with your primary partner.
Sexting is a kind of short-form freestyle erotica with you are your sexting partners as co-authors.
In reality, your mobile phone is a marvellous tool you can use to connect with like-minded people to explore mutual sexual fantasies.
Sexting Advice
Why do thousands of men and women, in the UK, sex text every day with complete strangers?
Lots of reasons and plenty of benefits:
- You get off, or you help someone else get off, or you both get off. This is really a no-brainer. It’s like sex, but without touching someone else. It’s mutual masturbation. It’s fun. Just go with it if you’re up for it and free to do so.
- It’s a great way to connect with like-minded people you haven’t met and will probably never meet. Maybe you both want to enjoy some intimate, sexual fun times. You have an electronic device in your pocket that can send your innermost thoughts to another consenting adult, right now. Use it to our advantage.
- If it’s difficult for you to open up about what it is you want, it’s always easier through the anonymity of text messaging. I know for me, being able to hide behind a screen makes it easier to say something I might be a little afraid to say with someone I know, face-to-face. In being able to say something flirty while chatting via mobile, I have found the courage to be able to say things I would never be able to say in real life. So perhaps ‘that thing’ is just a bit kinky (okay, a lot kinky) that I’m inquisitive about gets hinted at when I’m in the midst of some ‘freestyle erotica’ (sex texting).
- Connected to number 3, above. You are about to enter into a virtual-space where fantasies can be played out together while keeping them in the realm of fantasy. Maybe the realm of erotica is a great way for you to test the waters? So maybe ‘that thing’ comes out and you both get to experience the energy and emotions behind it. And maybe it just makes you feel dirty and incredibly hot, not the muddy dirty, either! XXX Sex Contacts facilities an opportunity where you and your sexting partner can grow, learn and explore together sexually. Maybe conversations lead to the discovery of something else that excites one or both of you.
- Sexting makes it very easy to stop and go. Today was a very interesting session for me because I was the one doing most of the running. So it was my fantasy, my perspective, my words, my rhythm. There were a few times where he would interject with, “Oh, I like that.” So even though I was sort of ‘driving the bus’, so to speak, I got instant feedback from my partner about what was good for him and what wasn’t. I could then respond to his needs through the flow of the scenario I was painting. It became co-created, like all good sex is, rather than me simply telling him about the myriad of sexy activities that I would like to share with him.
- You or your sexting partner can drive the adventure using erotic fantasies to explore more Dominant or submissive sides or desires. It is a very safe way for someone who is typically in control to give that power away without being threatened. The Dom becomes the sub? The sub becomes the Dom? Now everyone can be a switch?
Sexting Advice:
Short-form freestyle erotica (sex text)
Mobile is a beautiful tool used for connection and exploration of sexuality. So, as with any manifestations of sexuality, I think we have to walk into these situations mindfully. We have to be able to discern what’s best for us in any given situation. Maybe my answer is different today than it would be tomorrow and maybe my answer will be different depending on who I am with!
What’s your answer at this moment? Do you practice short-form freestyle (sex text) erotica? Has it made your relationship better? Leave a comment. Let’s have a conversation.
Sexting Advice
Author: Emma Valasco
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Note: XXX Sex Contacts is a virtual relationship platform that allows users to send and receive images from other people using the XXX service. The charge is just £1.50 per private message you receive. Service charges include full access to the XXX private and confidential messaging platform and all in-built features.
We don’t believe XXX Sex Contacts is about just providing adult entertainment, instead, we see ourselves as a contact facilitator for consenting adults 18+ in the UK who want to strike up relationships online – our platform gives people an opportunity to have a virtual companion. The movie ‘Her’ really hit the nail on the head… people want to have relationships online, and our service is one way of helping to make that happen – not an ‘adult entertainment’ product, but instead a for-profit fantasy social network. The purpose of this service isn’t for people to meet, it’s for users to have somebody to communicate with that’s better than the pin-up girls of previous generations.
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Sexting Advice: Sexting is great for people trying to stay connected. I get turned on when men I’m texting make it all about sex, or jump into the sex through hand-held technology. Fortunately, it’s been my experience to have male sexting partners who have little or no self-control or are free with expressing their sexual desires quickly. I want a guy to want me and love the intimacy and anonymity of sex text with people I don’t know and will never meet. Flirting is great. Blatant sex early into a chat session is what I love and crave. I’m not interested in a serious relationship, marriage and babies. I’m just here for the sex.
Linda (61) Horsham, West Sussex
Sexting Advice: I use sexting to keep the embers of anticipation glowing. It’s a fun tool to bring to a consensual relationship. Emphasis on the sensual! I agree that it is a way to put yourself out there in a manner you wouldn’t usually do, and that, for me, has me pushing my own sexual boundaries.